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I do want to provide a general CW/TW for all sessions. Since this is a summit focused on recovery from abuse and trauma, assume that we will talk about trauma and abuse regularly. Some speakers may go into detail about their spiritual, emotional, or sexual abuse. Others may talk about suicidal ideation or attempts. If you need to take space for yourself, please do so.
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LIVE Bonus Session @11a EST
Healthy Sexuality after Purity Culture
with Dr. Camden Morgante
& Sam Jolman, LPC
Join us on YouTube for a live discussion around what healthy sexuality (and talking about it!) is like for those who grew up in purity culture.
Join us for our Live Community Call!
Attending a virtual summit doesn't mean we can't create opportunities to meet other people and cultivate community.
Join us each night of the Summit to meet and find others across the world who share your experiences, are looking for help and resources, and desiring a safe place to be seen and heard. We may have some guest speakers joining us each call to meet and hear from you, and to answer your questions.
Plan for just about an hour together, and feel free to come late or leave early. Mostly, I want you to know and see—you are not alone.
You're welcome to join as many calls as you'd like. Click the button below to join the call on Zoom at 9p EST.
Join the call here at 9p ESTThe Courage to Connect: Breaking Free from Shame
with Chuck DeGroat
In this session, Chuck DeGroat explores the importance of connection and moving toward shame and suffering to heal from trauma. He points out that addictions are not the problem, but rather, attempts to solve the problem. For those who have experienced trauma in relationships, he emphasizes pacing yourself and explains why safety is a prerequisite for connection, and self-compassion is necessary for healing and growth.
Bio
Chuck DeGroat is a follower of Jesus, a husband to Sara, and father to two amazing daughters. He serves as Professor of Counseling and Christian Spirituality and Executive Director of the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at Western Theological Seminary in Holland MI. He’s also a faculty member for the Soul Care Institute.
A licensed therapist, a spiritual director, author of five books (including Healing What's Within and When Narcissism Comes to Church), and retreat leader/speaker, Chuck has specialized in issues of abuse and trauma, pastoral (and leadership) health, and navigating issues of doubt and dark nights on the faith journey. He’s also a Minister of Word and Sacrament in the Reformed Church in America, and has pastored in Orlando and San Francisco before transitioning to training and forming pastors.
Chuck also trains clergy in issues of abuse and trauma, conducts pastor and planter assessments, and facilitates church consultations and investigations of abuse among pastors and within congregations.
Links & Resources
Website | Instagram | Substack
- Healing What's Within by Chuck DeGroat
- When Narcissism Comes to Church by Chuck DeGroat
Practices for Emotional Recovery from Trauma
with Becky Castle Miller
Emotions are often taught to be negative or untrustworthy in spiritually abusive contexts. In her Summit session, Becky Castle Miller, a C-PTSD and PTSD survivor, shares tips for embracing your emotions and 10 practices for emotional recovery from trauma that are effective for healing from spiritual abuse.
Bio
Becky Castle Miller is a PhD student at Wheaton College studying New Testament with Esau McCaulley. Her dissertation research is about emotions in the Gospel of Luke. She writes and speaks on emotional, mental, and spiritual health in the church and offers emotion coaching. She graduated from Northern Seminary where she studied with Scot McKnight. Her discipleship workbook with Dr. McKnight is called Following King Jesus. She and her husband and their five kids and cat returned to the US in 2020 after living in the Netherlands for eight years, where she served as discipleship director at an international church. She is a survivor of multiple forms of abuse, including spiritual trauma.
Resources
Books:
- Following King Jesus: How to Know, Read, Live, and Show the Gospel by Scot McKnight and Becky Castle Miller
- How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett
- Between Us: How Cultures Create Emotions by Batja Mesquita
- The Internal Family Systems Workbook by Richard Schwartz
- Transforming the Living Legacy of Trauma by Janina Fisher
- Complex PTSD by Pete Walker
- Untangle Workbook: A guided journaling process for untangling emotions and finding wisdom by Marc Alan Schelske
- The Wisdom of Your Heart by Marc Alan Schelske
- Big Feelings Days by Aubrey Sampson
- The Big Feelings Book by Meaghan Hampton
How We Feel app
13 Steps for Managing Flashbacks by Pete Walker, MA, MFT
Disabled Psalms: Processing Honestly with God
with Christopher Stewart
In this Summit session, Christopher shares his profound journey of faith and life after disability, exploring themes of grief, healing, and the sacredness of the disabled experience. He reads his original psalms, reflecting on his struggles and insights learned from wrestling with God, and emphasizes the importance of processing emotions honestly before God. Christopher also highlights the societal perceptions of disability and the beautiful vocation that can arise from living with a disability.
Bio
Hello, my name is Christopher. As of July 2022, I was an able-bodied, recently ordained, visual artist and seminary student with a seemingly clear path before me. That same month and year I survived a life-altering brain injury, which left me with multiple disabilities - blind, without much use of my hands, and dependent on others’ care. In the time since then, through much prayer and processing, I have begun to see my disability as vocation. One of the ways I have been inspired to process my loss and disability is to borrow from the structure and language of the Psalms by composing a series of prayer poems called “Disabled Psalms.” Through my writing, online ministry, and live recitation engagements, I hope to raise awareness of the disabled experience and to give others in the disabled and able-bodied communities a way to process their own experiences through the intimate language of prayer.
Fun fact: I am a dual citizen of both Narnia and Middle Earth, having read and re-read The Chronicles of Narnia and The Lord of the Rings countless times. I know these stories by heart, and they inform my creativity.
Resources
Website | Instagram | YouTube | Patreon
Books:
- My Bright Abyss by Christian Wiman
- My Body Is Not a Prayer Request: Disability Justice in the Church by Amy Kenny
- The Anti-Ableist Manifesto: Smashing Stereotypes, Forging Change, and Building a Disability-Inclusive World by Tiffany Yu
- Disability and the Gospel: How God Uses Our Brokenness to Display His Grace by Michael S. Beates
- Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-First Century edited by Alice Wong
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