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I do want to provide a general CW/TW for all sessions. Since this is a summit focused on recovery from abuse and trauma, assume that we will talk about trauma and abuse regularly. Some speakers may go into detail about their spiritual, emotional, or sexual abuse. Others may talk about suicidal ideation or attempts. If you need to take space for yourself, please do so.
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Join the call here at 8:30p ESTJenai Auman: The Harm of Othering in the Church
In this conversation, Jenai discusses the importance of becoming an agent of reconciliation. She also shares her experience pursuing a master's degree in spiritual formation and explains the concept of trauma-informed care. She delves into the meaning of "othering" and how it manifests in church environments. She concludes by offering recommendations for responding to othering.
Jenai talks about the importance of taking care of oneself before helping others, focusing on the victim before challenging the system, different forms of allyship, navigating church attendance and community, permission to not attend church and find community elsewhere, and the blessing of being othered. She emphasizes the need for self-compassion and self-care when triggered, as well as the importance of supporting and caring for victims of systemic oppression. Jenai also shares her personal journey of finding community outside of traditional church structures and the significance of being othered as a unique attribute of God's people.
Bio
Jenai is a Filipina American writer and artist. She draws from her years in church leadership as well as her trauma-informed training to write on healing, hope, and the way forward. She is passionate about providing language so readers can find a faith that frees. She received her bachelor’s degree in behavioral health science and is currently pursuing a master’s in spiritual formation at Northeastern Seminary. Jenai lives in Houston, Texas, with her husband, Tyler, and their sons, Quinn and Graham.
Resources
website | Instagram | Substack newsletter | SAHMSA Trauma-Informed Guidelines
Othered by Jenai Auman
Disunity in Christ by Dr. Christina Cleveland
Krispin Mayfield, LPC: Attached to God (and Detached from God)
In this session, Brian and Krispin discuss emotionally focused therapy, the impact of attachment styles on our relationship with God, and the importance of embodied work. Krispin shares his personal journey and the motivation behind writing his book, Attached to God, as well as the different attachment styles.
They explore different styles of spirituality, including the role of video games as a spiritual practice. It delves into the shame-filled style of theology and the impact of trauma on one's perception of self-worth. Krispin also reflects on what he would add or change in his book since its publication and emphasizes the importance of giving permission to leave the faith.
Bio
Krispin Mayfield is a Licensed Professional Counselor and has used attachment science to understand how we experience connection with God, which he wrote about in his first book, Attached to God. He works as a therapist practicing Emotionally Focused Therapy.
He and his partner host a podcast titled Prophetic Imagination Station deconstructing evangelical media, and together they are currently working on a book exploring the long-term impact of growing up under evangelical parenting practices (as taught by Dr. James Dobson and others).
Resources
Attached to God by Krispin Mayfield
The Diabolical Trinity by Mark Karris
A Gentler God by Doug Frank (theology of IFS)
Untangling Emotions by J. Alistair Groves
The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd
The 6 Needs of Every Child by Amy and Jeffrey Olrick
SAMHSA: Practical Guide for Implementing a Trauma-Informed Approach
David Hayward: NakedPastor and What He's Up To
David shares his journey of deconstruction and the challenges he faced in leaving the church. He emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for growth and the need for individuals to be free to explore and express their authentic selves. David discusses the concept of individuation in community and the challenges of challenging control and oppression within institutions. He also shares his profound epiphany on connectedness and the loss of community that often accompanies leaving the church.
David offers insights on creating new friendships and rediscovering individuality in marriage and discusses his art and his role as an ally for marginalized communities. Speaking out against the system while acknowledging his participation in it, Hayward emphasizes the struggle with relationships as a common theme in the deconstruction process, including the impact on marriage and friendships. He also highlights the issue of deconstructing with children.
Bio
David is a pastor turned artist painting, drawing, and thinking about what it takes to be free to be you. If you’re interested in deconstruction, spiritual journeying, freedom of thought, or looking for your authentic self, you’re welcome to join him while he searches too.
In case you’re wondering, he’s not actually naked. The idea behind the name, NakedPastor, is to seek to tell the naked truth - no matter how vulnerable it feels. He used to be a pastor but has been creating art and working towards freedom with his community for over 10 years now.
Resources
Website | Community | Instagram
The Silence of Jesus by James Breech
Til Doubt Do Us Part by David Hayward
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Emily Anderson: Safely Telling Your Story
In this session, Emily shares her journey of healing and empowerment after experiencing childhood trauma and leaving a fundamentalist cult. She discusses the process of sharing her story publicly and the importance of taking back power and finding one's voice.
Emphasizing the need for trauma-informed therapy and legal guidance when sharing traumatic experiences, she also highlights the resources and support available for survivors of trauma and the importance of prioritizing mental health. Through her platform, Thriving Forward, Emily provides advocacy, coaching, and community for survivors.
Bio
Emily Anderson is a writer, speaker, trauma recovery advocate, and founder of Thriving Forward.
After growing up in a fundamentalist cult for 23 years and experiencing childhood domestic violence and sexual assault, Emily began her journey to recovery in 2015 after bravely entering a lawsuit formed against the cult and its leader, Bill Gothard.
She found writing to be a crucial outlet through her personal healing journey and she later turned her love for writing into her platform, Thriving Forward. Emily's story has since been featured on several media outlets including NPR and Amazon Prime's hit docuseries, Shiny Happy People.
Deeply passionate about educating on the realities of trauma survival and recovery, Emily’s focus has been to create a space for survivors to experience support, as well as find community with others who have experienced similar trauma.
Resources
Amanda Waldron, MSW: Faith After Deconstruction
In this session, Amanda discusses the process of deconstructing and reconstructing one's faith, emphasizing that this journey is ongoing and not a destination. Waldron encourages individuals to view faith as a practice that evolves over time and highlights the importance of rest during the deconstruction process.
Bio
Amanda is a Faith Deconstruction & Reconstruction Coach + Clinical Social Worker at heyamandawaldron.com. You can find her at the intersection of mental health, social work, and theology.
She supports thoughtful Christians and communities who are wrestling through big doubts and questions and hope to stay within the Christian faith while finding more ease and wonder in the process. Her goal is to help people ask different questions and expand the lens of what can be possible in their Christian faith.
Resources
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